Everyone talks about choosing the right engagement ring, but a lot less is said about buying the wedding bands. This important purchase is one that you’ll wear forever — in fact, probably more often than your engagement ring — so doesn’t it deserve the same amount of attention? We’ve put together a no-fail guide with all the information you need to buy your perfect band.
Do your research
Like any other significant purchase, deciding on things like budget before you begin your shopping journey can help the process go a lot smoother. Many couples make the mistake of waiting until the last minute to go wedding band shopping — this can cause unneeded stress, as you’re already making a lot of large purchases when it comes to your wedding. Plus, if you decide to get something more custom, you may not be able to get the ring in time for the big day. Play it safe and discuss your options beforehand — including who’s paying for the bands.
Think about your lifestyle
This one holds true especially for men, as women are more likely to have considered the wear and tear their engagement ring has to go through already. Does your job require a lot of work with your hands? Are you an athlete, or do you spend a lot of time in the water? All of these answers can contribute to what kind of band you land on. Some metals are more durable than others, so it can help to educate yourselves on all the different types before making a decision.
To match or not to match?
For women, there are a few directions you can take your wedding band, depending on what style you’re looking for. Some prefer to match their band with their engagement ring to create one harmonizing set, while others may prefer to mix and match with different metals and styles. You can also choose to pair your band with your fiancé’s in some way, if that’s your thing. We recommend checking out these helpful blogs for inspiration.
For men, take into consideration any jewelry that you wear on an everyday basis, as well as the overall look you’re trying to achieve. Men with larger hands or fingers may find that a thicker band looks better, while those who always sport a silver watch may want to stick to white-colored metals like platinum and white gold.
Consider personalized details
Wedding bands are the perfect place to add a little extra personalization. Ask your partner if they’d be interested in adding engravings to your bands, such as the date of your wedding, your initials, or another significant message that you can keep with you forever. At Shane Co., you can even create a fully customized wedding band by choosing from millions of options, from size, metal, and finish to unique inlays and patterns.
Make it an experience
Whether or not you shopped for the engagement ring together, getting to pick out your wedding bands is a great way to spend some time as a couple before the big day. Perhaps you want complementary bands, or maybe you just want to elevate an experience that is often overlooked. Either way, shopping for your bands together gives you the chance to make this purchase more meaningful.